Author Topic: The Official "We Have Girlfriends/Boyfriends" thread! (Read 76439 times)

LordRyunson · « **Reply #20 on:** September 10, 2006, 10:50:10 pm »

Right, as soon as I can get more money into my account, and overcome my shyness with a little more free time, then I might consider asking someone out on a date. But since I've got a lot of work to be doing (Both recreational and fun), it might be a while.

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The sword going through Dante's chest was symbolism, people. AND BESIDES HE GETS STABBED ALL THE FUCKING TIME SO REALLY IT'S NO BIG DEAL.

I understand that one. Who's the guy with him?

In the meanwhile, enjoy the yaoi. (My personal opinion of Yaoi: EEEWWWWW!!! I may get a few exceptions to that, until that day comes.... OI!)

HMD · « **Reply #21 on:** September 10, 2006, 10:53:41 pm »

Vergil. Dante's evil twin brother.

ragnabot · « **Reply #22 on:** September 11, 2006, 12:31:43 am »

What are girlfriends? Are those food? o.O

lol

Kiinan Yamasu · « **Reply #23 on:** September 11, 2006, 12:58:53 am »

That reminds me of the convention where the Bakazoku cosplay group was on stage and making a big joke of Yaoi.

"Frosted Yaoi Flakes... there's a nice image..." "There's no better way to start YOUR day... than with some YAOIIIIII" XD

tetsaru arigashi · « **Reply #24 on:** September 11, 2006, 01:33:49 pm »

*noticed that Will deleted my Nanako pic* O_O

NOOOOO, you killed her, you son of a bitch!!! dammit, i was just trying to be humorous, i'm sorry i'm not able to get any, you asshole, i said i wouldn't post 100 links in a row anymore, and i can't help the fact that her boobs jiggle in opposite directions at random occasions!!! *starts crying pathetically to himself* ;_;

...and yet, you allow pictures of yaoi in your thread... >_> i should find and post a pic of a huge yuri orgy just to spite you, Will... but i won't do that, because I'M A NICE GUY. remember that, you dirty bastard.... >X(

and i can relate to those who say that they're shy, etc. otakus like us have no communication skills, especially since we use email and I.M.'s and forums just like this one all the time. even if we DO have something in common with a girl, we can't really elaborate on it that easily. and once that's said and done, there's either an awkward silence, or an equally awkard random question we try to ask the girl in an desperate effort to keep the conversation going that usually ends up with a short and/or stupid response.

i think the main reason why we otakus can't get any is simply because the gaming community is overwhelmingly male, and any girls who are into anime usually are into the stuff the guys hate (YAOI, HINT HINT). another theory is that most otakus aren't very attractive appearance-wise anyway, no offense to anyone here. let's face it - we're usually too busy sitting at the computer/TV playing games, watching anime, or conversing amongst our Internet acquaintances that we don't get off our asses and do any vigorous physical activity. again, i don't mean to offend anyone with these comments, but it's something to think about. =/

LordRyunson · « **Reply #25 on:** September 11, 2006, 01:42:57 pm »

You go, Tetsaru! +1 Rep for you! For Nanako! For Fandom! For the Community!

HMD · « **Reply #26 on:** September 11, 2006, 02:16:22 pm »

Quote from: tetsaru arigashi on September 11, 2006, 01:33:49 pm

*noticed that Will deleted my Nanako pic* O_O

NOOOOO, you killed her, you son of a bitch!!! dammit, i was just trying to be humorous, i'm sorry i'm not able to get any, you asshole, i said i wouldn't post 100 links in a row anymore, and i can't help the fact that her boobs jiggle in opposite directions at random occasions!!! *starts crying pathetically to himself* ;_;

...and yet, you allow pictures of yaoi in your thread... >_> i should find and post a pic of a huge yuri orgy just to spite you, Will... but i won't do that, because I'M A NICE GUY. remember that, you dirty bastard.... >X(

and i can relate to those who say that they're shy, etc. otakus like us have no communication skills, especially since we use email and I.M.'s and forums just like this one all the time. even if we DO have something in common with a girl, we can't really elaborate on it that easily. and once that's said and done, there's either an awkward silence, or an equally awkard random question we try to ask the girl in an desperate effort to keep the conversation going that usually ends up with a short and/or stupid response.

i think the main reason why we otakus can't get any is simply because the gaming community is overwhelmingly male, and any girls who are into anime usually are into the stuff the guys hate (YAOI, HINT HINT). another theory is that most otakus aren't very attractive appearance-wise anyway, no offense to anyone here. let's face it - we're usually too busy sitting at the computer/TV playing games, watching anime, or conversing amongst our Internet acquaintances that we don't get off our asses and do any vigorous physical activity. again, i don't mean to offend anyone with these comments, but it's something to think about. =/

HEAVENS TO MERGATROID

Hyperguy · « **Reply #27 on:** September 11, 2006, 02:24:17 pm »

I've got a lot I can say about otaku, but if we're going to press this discussion any further, I really think it belongs in its own topic.

HMD · « **Reply #28 on:** September 11, 2006, 02:33:54 pm »

tsar · « **Reply #29 on:** September 11, 2006, 04:24:33 pm »

There's plenty of slutty (and in some cases hot) otaku ass that you could easily get if you tried. Stop blaming your own faults on a subculture.

HMD · « **Reply #30 on:** September 11, 2006, 06:07:12 pm »

I know it's been awhile since my last relationship, and I'll get into another one. But I'm just too busy watching t.v.

HMD · « **Reply #31 on:** September 11, 2006, 06:07:58 pm »

and listening to princes of the universe.

Snorlax.RAYZR · « **Reply #32 on:** September 11, 2006, 11:18:59 pm »

Quote from: The Great Will on September 10, 2006, 10:14:56 pm

disturbing my ass, that's pretty fuckin' hot.

also...

I spend an average of 10-20 dollars on a date when I'm getting to know a girl, when you shower them in overly fake affection and lust they are going to reject you, likewise when you act like a scared puppy they are going to reject you. some interests in the real world? Please. You inevitably have something in common with somebody. Even if it's just some dumb movie you liked. I don't drive, I own a car but I have never had a license, I have to be shuttled EVERYWHERE I GO. The most I've ever spent on a date was 100 bucks, with my ex, on an anniversary. I think you need to start taking dating tips from the real world and MTV or whatever romance anime you're watching at the current moment.

Get over the shyness thing, and don't take every bit of rejection as example that you're going to die alone. Please.

Good point.

When you "get to know a girl" (I presume the dating is the "let's try things out" kinda date) do you spent money every time you do something?

I personally don't pay much. My girlfriend's from a poor family (I'm poor but she unfortunately got the wrong side of the wall) so when I get her things she gets rather mad (well she loves the gift but she just flips out) because she "knows she can't get me anything in return". I don't show up with a ring, or a necklace, or whatever. I show up with random stupidies.

"LOL OMG I'M A NINJA"

I'm glad she appreciates that random side. A lot of the people I know end up getting used to my hyperactivity. Those who can't stand me just go away. Haha.

So I don't spend much. Maybe a bus ticket for her (I use a bus pass, I would gladly buy her one but she doesn't live in the same area as me [I'm 514 and she's 450]).

About that dating bit, everyone around me tried "test dating" (as they call it up here). You like this person, ask them out. Impress them somehow, see each other again, if it works, then the relationship starts. I always just... talked to the person and little by little I would show more and more trust (I've had a few nukes before, so I'm not too stable if you get my drift) and eventually.. *pop*

Thumbs down at that DMC thing man. I should neg rep that. But meh.

OMFG I HAVE SCHOOL GOTTA SLEEP WTF.

BIG-K14 · « **Reply #33 on:** September 12, 2006, 09:51:15 pm »

...sigh I wish I had a relationship

tetsaru arigashi · « **Reply #34 on:** September 12, 2006, 10:14:59 pm »

Quote from: BIG-K14 on September 12, 2006, 09:51:15 pm

...sigh I wish I had a relationship

i think deep down, we can all say that, BIG-K14. i'd love to have a gf, but at my current status, i think it'd be impractical. i'm going to wait until AFTER college, AFTER i get a steady career and income, and last but not least, AFTER i get my fucking driver's license. i'd hate to get an awesome chick to like me and then dump me afterwards simply because i couldn't support her as much as my love for her would want me to. =/

Ellendesu · « **Reply #35 on:** September 12, 2006, 10:16:48 pm »

Quote from: tetsaru arigashi on September 12, 2006, 10:14:59 pm

i think deep down, we can all say that, BIG-K14. i'd love to have a gf, but at my current status, i think it'd be impractical. i'm going to wait until AFTER college, AFTER i get a steady career and income, and last but not least, AFTER i get my fucking driver's license. i'd hate to get an awesome chick to like me and then dump me afterwards simply because i couldn't support her as much as my love for her would want me to. =/

You know what, that's actually a pretty good way to think about it, but you know, you sound like you're prepping for a wife, you should just find a nice girlfriend to have some fun with ya know?

HMD · « **Reply #36 on:** September 12, 2006, 10:19:39 pm »

Yeah man, just find some bitch and sex her up. At our age (we're both 20, it appears), relationships last about this long:

Very rarely do they go for a long time (my friend Ian and his girl have been together for 2 years).

ROMate · « **Reply #37 on:** September 12, 2006, 10:22:09 pm »

My longest relationship is 7 months. It is also the one I'm currently in. My 2nd longest relationship was approximately 3 months, 90% of which was 3rd base in that baseball analogy.

tetsaru arigashi · « **Reply #38 on:** September 12, 2006, 10:36:49 pm »

Quote from: The Great Will on September 12, 2006, 10:16:48 pm

You know what, that's actually a pretty good way to think about it, but you know, you sound like you're prepping for a wife, you should just find a nice girlfriend to have some fun with ya know?

eh, i would, but i think i'd feel guilty afterwards when i DID have a lasting relationship. i guess i'm just one of those kind of people who only want to give up their virginity to the person who they KNOW they're going to love, even if that does sound rather odd coming from a guy. =/

that, and one of my good friends had some really bad luck with random gf's... he actually got lucky and met up with this one chick he knew online for about 2 years, even had sex with her, but shortly afterward he heard she was cheating on him and they broke up. another of his gf's died in a car wreck, one Japanese chick he met online was banned by her father from talking to him (i think he was arranging a marriage for her anyway, which sucked), and one local girl he was going out with for a while broke up with him because she was scared he would have treated her like one of her previous bf's, who abused her. i just don't want to go through all that like he did (even though i probably will anyway), because i know it's got to suck... ;_;

Ellendesu · « **Reply #39 on:** September 12, 2006, 10:41:56 pm »

Quote from: tetsaru arigashi on September 12, 2006, 10:36:49 pm

eh, i would, but i think i'd feel guilty afterwards when i DID have a lasting relationship. i guess i'm just one of those kind of people who only want to give up their virginity to the person who they KNOW they're going to love, even if that does sound rather odd coming from a guy. =/

I can respect that.

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